Dating Tips for Men

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• When introducing yourself online, say hello courteously. "Hi sexy" or other presumptuous greetings are inappropriate when making the first connection.
• Never pressure a woman for her phone number. If you would like to offer yours, that's fine.
• Ask your date whether she would like you to pick her up or meet her at a convenient location.
• Make a plan. Women love it when a man proposes creative ideas for the date. Don't show up with no clue about what you are going to do. If you're on a budget, don't ask your date to choose the restaurant or activity. Otherwise, you could be setting yourself up for an embarrassing situation.
• Never brag or complain about how busy your schedule is when setting up a date. You'll send a message that you don't have time for her, and that's a turn-off.
• Always call to confirm the day before. Don't assume the date is on unless you have established a definitive meeting place and a time.
• Be punctual. Never keep a woman waiting. If you're running late due to unforseen circumstances, call your date immediately and let her know.
• If you bring flowers, make sure they are fresh, not dehydrated or wilted. If you are traveling to meet your date, ask the florist to put your bouquet in water tubes. Give flowers frequently, even if you think they're superfluous.
• Pick up the tab on at least the first few dates. Generosity makes you more attractive. If your date offers to pay, thank her and tell her you would gladly accept sometime in the future.
  
  

• Insure that your date feels comfortable at all times and be solicitous about her well-being.
• Show interest in her and do not talk incessantly about yourself. That is a huge turn-off to women. Also, do not talk excessively about your mother (no more than once). If you do, your date will think you need one, and that's not sexy.
• Make sure she gets home safely; ideally, bring her to her door. Do not insist on coming into her home. Let her invite you when she is ready.
• If you're on a timetable and have to catch a bus, train, etc., tell your date in advance. Be mindful of the time and don't end the date abruptly. Make sure you leave sufficient time to see her to her destination safely.
• Call your date within 24 hours if you want to see her again, especially if you have been intimate with her. Ideally, make plans at the end of the date.
• If you promise to call, make sure you do and don't keep the person hanging.  Do not use email as your primary form of contact; it is impersonal and not romantic.