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Page 1 of 4 Dont miss out on thee need to know dating principles.
X & Y COMMUNICATIONS MINI-COURSE: 16 GENERALLY ACCEPTED BUT DANGEROUS DATING PRINCIPLES
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Today’s lesson is the last in the series. And I hope you would only expect from me that I’d save the best for last. Lesson Eight is about "numbers"…and rest assured that the two most dangerous types of dating advice that have been conspicuous by their absence thus far are exactly what we’ve been holding in reserve until now. Fasten your seat belts… =
LESSON EIGHT
NUMBERS
1) "Dating (especially online dating) is a ‘numbers game’"
All too often, you’ll hear the ever-popular admonition that "dating is just a numbers game".
Who decided this was true? My guess is that it was the same person who came up with such gems as "rejection is your friend" and/or any of the iterations of "don’t be so picky". I have to admit, if you are getting rejected a lot it’s nice to have a security blanket to hold onto. As such I can resonate a bit with the concept of "rejection being one’s friend" if (and ONLY if) that’s meant to apply to when someone you were attempting to get to know seriously lacked personality and/or character. In those cases I can see how that that person saved you quite a bit of potential trouble in rejecting you. But the big picture here is that consideration of dating as a "numbers game" portends settling for less than you want (or deserve) as much as any other potentially dangerous piece of advice we’ve covered in this mini-course. 
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