I know it feels great to be close to him and
have sex - perhaps even great sex.

    But write down if it inspires him to be more
caring and loving, or if you can feel him get up
quicker, or not call for another date sooner.

    Write down the general feeling you feel during
- and afterward.

    See if you feel happy, or if you feel
resentful.

    Or perhaps you’re the one always suggesting
dates.   Perhaps you even drive to his house.

    Write down how satisfied you feel.

    Write down how you feel about YOURSELF the next
day.

    Write down how he behaves after you’ve
initiated something.

    Write down how phone calls go when you call
him, and how they go when he calls you.

    Let’s call this whole Tool - INVESTIGATION.

    You’re investigating if there’s a "cause-and-
effect" relationship between what you do and what
he then does.

    Go ahead and this whole week, investigate how
you are with your man, with a man you just met,
with the men behind the counters at the market and
the dry cleaners.

    TRACK yourself (no beating yourself up,
remember), and be sure to let me know what you
find.

    You can send me a letter at
This email address is being protected from spam bots, you need Javascript enabled to view it - or even
better, make a comment on my blog (I’ll put up a
post about Overfunctioning, so look for that one).
You can get to the blog - and also watch, listen
to and read about all of my programs (there’s so
much you can learn just by going to each program’s
special page) - right here:

http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/171/CD147/&dp=9519

    Especially take a look at my Modern Siren
program.   Siren will give you the complete
alternative to Overfunctioning.   Being a Siren is
about feeling your feelings, loving yourself, and
having FUN doing it, and the Tools in Siren are
just mind-blowing and amazing. I know you’ll love
it and that it will help you tremendously.   You
can go directly to video clips of it right here:

http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/171/CD147/&dp=9519

    Let me know how you’re doing with Tracking how
much you’re doing in your love life…and I’ll
write more about how to be "pro-active" in your
love life without Overfunctioning.

    Love, Rori

P.S. If you’d like to send me a question or a
problem you’re having that I can answer in an
eLetter - or a Success Story! - I WILL ABSOLUTELY,
PERSONALLY READ YOUR LETTER!   I stay up late to
read what you’ve written to me, and will be able
to help you more quickly if you keep it to a
simple format (If you don’t want me to use your
letter in these eLetters, please let me know -
otherwise I’ll change all the names and cities and
go ahead):

1. One or two paragraphs, please, and

2. Get as specific as you can - the details help
me really get a feel for your unique situation.

    Please feel free to forward these e-letters to
a friend - and let her know she can get in touch
with me and start receiving her own letters by
going to www.HaveTheRelationshipYouWant.com

    If you’ve already downloaded my Have The
Relationship You Want e-book, work through it. If
you’d like to get it now, Click (or copy and
paste) this link:

http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/171/CD147/&dp=9519

    Please go ahead and write in it, practice all
the Tools, and let me know how it’s working for
you.

    I have total faith in you, and look forward to
hearing about every step you take.

    Love, Rori

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