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Page 1 of 6 Don’t push him away.
Hi, Ladies, does your man feel just out of reach? Like he’s with you but not WITH you? Like he’s only there because you’re working so hard to keep the relationship together? This is where I know my new Modern Siren program can help you - being a Siren is all about ATTRACTING a man - effortlessly. Just be being a woman, just by being exactly who you are. Minute by minute, day by day, your Siren energy makes him feel absolutely compelled to be with you, to get closer and closer to you - without you doing ANYTHING. If you’d like to watch some clips from Modern Siren, and even try the entire program out for free for 30 days, go right here: http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/171/CD147/&dp=9519 Dear Ladies, If it just never feels smooth and easy in your relationship…if you always feel like you’re figuring things out, making things work, going the extra mile…then you’re Overfunctioning. Overfunctioning is one of my earliest concepts (Chapter 19 in my eBook Have The Relationship You Want has Tools to help) - and it’s still one of the most important things I can teach you. And stopping Overfunctioning is also the first big challenge you’ll face in turning your love life around - because we women have all been taught that Overfunctioning is normal. We’ve been TRAINED to Overfunction. We’ve been told over and over again to DO TOO MUCH in a relationship - and we’ve watched our mothers and relatives and friends do it. And if we even THINK of stopping Overfunctioning with our man - everyone (friends and family and yes! our MAN, too) jumps in to tell us that if we let up for a minute, if we slow down for one minute, if we dare to think of ourselves first instead of our man first, if we dare to do what WE want instead of trying to make him want it too - we’ll lose him. And that’s an out and out untruth. I won’t say it’s a "lie," because in order to lie, you have to KNOW you’re not telling the truth, and almost NO ONE knows that Overfunctioning is NOT the way to get more love. The truth is - Overfunctioning is the fastest way to push a man away from you. And stopping Overfunctioning is the fastest way to bring him close again! Here’s a letter from Samantha, and I’m going to answer her questions here for you: "Dear Rori, Would it be possible for you to address the following in a newsletter: a) I truly want to BE and not Overfunction b) It would feel great to see that the man in a relationship made plans etc. to please me…and that he would be happy in his success at pleasing me….instead of asking me in the car where do I want to go…etc. However… 
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