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Page 1 of 8 Do you know how to get her to let her guard down?
>NOTE: You can look at all of the video and audio training programs I’ve created to help you learn how to approach and meet women right HERE: http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/86/CD147/&dp=844 Here’s an interesting story…
A few hours ago I was standing in a "posh" bar in San Francisco. I was standing near to the bar, looking around at the people, when the guy next to me starts talking to a girl he doesn’t know. She turned and looked at him with a look that said "I don’t know you, I don’t want to talk to you, and you have no chance with me." The look on her face couldn’t have been more clear. As soon as he started talking to her, she put up her defenses. The more he tried to talk to her, the more annoyed she got. It was painful to watch. Then things got REALLY interesting. The guy turned to me and started making conversation with me. He asked me how I was "doing" with the ladies at the bar. I told him that I had just arrived, and I wasn’t particularly in the mood to talk to women at the moment… I was just enjoying my drink and relaxing. He then started to talk about how "meeting women was a numbers game" and how he had been "laying rap" on women all night… but he didn’t have any "luck" so far. We started discussing our different approaches to meeting women. I told him that when I decide to talk to a woman that I really find attractive, I am confident that I’ll be successful with her. He kind of laughed and told me that meeting women was a game of luck, and if you wanted to win, you had to just keep playing the numbers… and hope you find one who likes you. Right at that moment, two cute women walked up to the bar. One of them was very hot. He looked at the hotter girl, pointed to her, and said "I like that." I said "Well, then go talk to her." He decided to go "order a drink" (in other words, he was going to go up to the bar and FAKE like he was there to order a drink, and then "accidentally" start a conversation with her). Of course, he already HAD a drink, so he fumbled around trying to find a place to put it down so he could walk up to the bar with no drink and not look like he was "on the make." It was pretty damn funny. Anyway, he squeezes in next to this girl, and tries to act like he’s just there to get a drink. He then turns to her, and tries to start a conversation. What happened? Of course… Her defenses went up INSTANTLY. She said a few words to him, but then turned away from him, took her drink and her friend, and walked away from the bar. 
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