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IN THIS EDITION:   You’re out on a date with a woman, and you’d
love to find out what her attitudes and feelings toward sex are.
Should you come right out and ask, or what?

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And now, here’s a question from one of you that I think most of us
can relate to…

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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS

Hey Scot,
 
I went out for coffee with a girl on Thursday.  And well we had a
great IM session last night.  We talked about a lot of stuff. I
told her that I am interested meeting again but I am not looking
for a steady girlfriend and that I am seeing other girls.

She was totally on the same page (she’s not looking for a steady
girlfriend either… lol).  So far she seems like a potentially
high quality girl. However, she has 2 kids with two different guys
(this to me doesn’t make her a bad person).

She has admitted she made some poor choices in the past. She’s
responsible and does what she says she is going to do. So I’m
waiting to see how this plays out.
 
My concern is, before we go on our first date, I want to know what
she thinks about sex. I am not interested in having sex with her on
the first date. I just want to know where she stands.

Would it be better to have that conversation in person, over the
phone, or IMing? Just to clarify, the reason I want to find out is
not so I can bang her as soon as possible but if we are real hot
for each other I want to respect her position if she has decided to
wait.

I would rather have that decision made in a stable mind set as
opposed to a "in the heat of the moment" descision.
 
Or if we are making out and things start progressing that way
should I just slow it down amd suggest we talk about it first. (I
just thought of that now)
 
Or maybe it could be something we talk about during the date? As
you can tell I’m all over the map here. So any advice would be
greatly appreciated.