Do you know what to do when she gives you the help me?

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While I’m not going to mention the website, a few days ago I came
across a post talking about women’s facial expressions, and what to
do when you see particular ones.

One expression the author referred to was the "help me" expression.
That’s the expression women give other women when they’re talking
to a complete loser, and want help getting rid of him.

The author said all women recognize this expression, but few men
do—and I agree with that.

Where I completely disagree with the author is when it comes to
what to do when you notice that expression.  The author said you
should "call her on it, as that will make her feel uncomfortable
and vulnerable."

That, my friends, is about the dumbest piece of advice anyone has
ever given men when it comes to attracting desirable women.  Making
a woman feel "uncomfortable and vulnerable" is the absolute best
way to kill attraction dead, something most "PUA’s" (Pick Up
Artists) do a fine job of.

If a woman you’re talking to is giving off the "help me" signals
it’s because YOU are doing something that has killed any attraction
dead with her.  What YOU need to do is figure out what YOU are
doing to create this situation, then fix it.

I started getting really good with women when I started becoming
self aware.  I started paying very close attention to the things
that I did that created attraction, and the things I did that
killed it (and I used to do a ton of things that killed it).  But
once I became aware of what I did that killed attraction and got
rid of it (in addition to actively guarding against it), I started
getting predictable, reliable results with women who were genuinely
attracted to me.

A big secret to the skill of attraction is self awareness.  When
you know the effect of your behavior on others, you can modify it
to get the results you want—and that’s when you really become
successful.

Another secret is this:  pay no attention to those who have no clue
what they’re talking about.

On with the fun….

-John Alanis
"The King of Let ‘em Come to You"

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