How To Use Eye Contact & Body Language To Attract Women


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***QUESTION***

Just wanted to share a little bit of what your

lessons have done for me. I read your book and

started concentrating on what I thought was my

weak points. I did as your book recommended and

started picturing myself as the cocky funny person

I wanted to be. I even did the whole daydream

practice thing everyday. I work at a fitness

center so I see lots of hot women all the time. My

biggest weakness is that I look away quickly after

eye contact is made. I decided that before I

started trying to approach women I would make it

my goal for a couple of weeks to just make eye

contact and hold it until they looked away. Ok,

here is the good part. After practicing eye

contact for a couple of weeks and doing the whole

mental exercise thing, I was at work one day

working out after my break and was practicing my

eye contact thing between sets with this really

hot girl near the dumbbell rack.

I knew she noticed but it never bothered me cause

I had no intentions of acting. Well, I had to go

over to get a set of dumbbells for my next

exercise and as I got close to where she was she

suddenly turned around and said "I have a

boyfriend" and turned around. Normally I would

have kinda stood there in shock and said nothing

but, I guess all that mental practice paid off.

With out even thinking or pausing the words just

came out. I said "Hey that's great I am happy for

you. (Pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is

probably a major accomplishment for you but to the

rest a the world this is kinda normal so you might

not want to go telling every stranger you see."

Then I just walked off with my weights to do my

sets. 5 min later she comes over to me and

apologizes and asks for my number. Turns out she

didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of

being picked up by losers while she was trying to

do a workout. Thanks for the pleasant surprise!

KAL

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>>>MY COMMENTS:

Nice one.

Your letter is really a wonderful affirmation

and summary of some of my favorite concepts:

1) Read my book, "Double Your Dating"

2) Actually use the material and mentally rehearse

3) Start from where you are

4) Be Cocky & Funny

5) Show complete indifference

6) Use illogical Jedi-Level mind power to create

ATTRACTION.

I'm going to talk more about eye contact and

body language in a moment, but if you'd like to

get the ultimate education on how to be Cocky &

Funny, then you MUST take a minute and get this:

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OK... onward.

First of all, your story would make NO sense at

all to most guys. They would say, "Yeah, whatever.

She was probably abused as a child and wants you

to be her daddy." or "Well, if I worked at a gym,

I could do that too."

Of course, you realize that this had nothing to

do with it... this was a result of you learning

about how women are, then preparing, and then

taking action.

I couldn't be more impressed.

Now, let's talk about some of the things that

were happening that most people would MISS when

reading the story...

You mentioned your exercise of keeping eye

contact until women look away. This is very

powerful. I am guilty of not addressing this issue

more often and I'm glad you mentioned it here.

If you can learn this skill, it will

communicate powerfully for you. Great job.

You said, "I guess all that mental practice

paid off. With out even thinking or pausing the

words just came out."

This is the result of preparation and mental

rehearsal. This wasn't "luck". Even though the

words were unique to the situation, the MESSAGE

was delivered clearly. By learning how to better

communicate in the language that women understand,

you created magic.

And, as for the words themselves...

You just gotta love saying: "Hey that's great. I

am happy for you." (Pause - and in a lower tone) "I

know this is probably a major accomplishment for

you, but to the rest of the world, this is kinda

normal. So, you might not want to go telling every

stranger you see." to a hot woman at the gym!

You INSTANTLY took a situation that would

normally strip a man of all his composure and

personal power, and then REFRAMED her words in a

way that caused HER to look like the socially

inept one.

Then you did something equally powerful:

YOU WALKED AWAY.

In effect, you busted on her, then PROVED

BEYOND THE SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT YOU COULD TAKE

HER OR LEAVE HER. Actions really do speak louder

than words... most guys would have messed up that

situation by standing around waiting for her to

say something. You did the right thing by walking

away.

When you combine all of these factors together,

you get a totally illogical outcome:

ATTRACTION.

She realized that you weren't just some other

loser who hoped to maybe get a date by kissing up

to her... You turned out to be one of the

EXCEPTIONAL men in the world who have more

personal power than her, and one of the even MORE

exceptional men who also know how to create

ATTRACTION.

This combination made her feel a feeling that

you can't create by DECIDING that you want it. It

can only be created by TRIGGERING IT.

Finally, I'd like to comment on the fact that

SHE asked YOU for YOUR number. You realize that

it's not typical for a woman to approach a man,

apologize, and then ask for his number.

Women will often ask a man for his number just

to get rid of him. But not in a situation like

this one. This was different. She apologized, then

told you that she's tired of being picked up by

losers... then asked for your number. This was, in

effect, her telling you that she sees you

DIFFERENTLY.

All because of your eye contact, followed by a

perfect execution of the Cocky and Funny attitude,

followed by an excellent physical demonstration of indifference.

Again, to most men this would make no sense at

all. If you consulted most relationship books,

they would argue that this type of approach would

NEVER work. I mean, men are supposed to "court"

women, compliment them... pursue them with gifts

and favors, right?

Yeah, right.

The problem is that the mainstream relationship

books forgot to TITLE the chapter that suggests

this kind of behavior:

"HOW TO BE THE WUSS WOMEN RUN FROM"

...or...

"HOW TO CONVINCE THE WOMAN YOU DESIRE THAT YOU

HAVE NO BACKBONE AND WOULD PAY ANY PRICE FOR HER

ATTENTION"

...or...

"SIMPLE TECHNIQUES FOR GIVING A WOMAN YOUR

REPRODUCTIVE EQUIPMENT ON A PLATTER".

The question I have for you is...

CAN YOU PUT ASIDE YOUR PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS

ABOUT WHY MEN AND WOMEN "SHOULD" BE ATTRACTED TO

EACH OTHER LONG ENOUGH TO SEE WHY THEY ACTUALLY

ARE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER?

And, can you do what it takes to get yourself

from where you are, to where you actually need to

be, in order to attract the kinds of women that you

would like to meet and date?

It can be done, but you're going to have to do

it.

As I mentioned above, the first step is to read

my online eBook, "Double Your Dating". That's the

best head start I can give you. Just

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And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

 

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