No one does anything wrong given his or her
own model of the world. This means that everyone believes that they
are doing the right thing given their personal point of view. Trying
to solve differences in points of view through fighting with the other
person gets the relationship nowhere and usually leads to future quarrels.
Remember that we live in a relative world, where two opposites can co-exist
at the same time in the same space. Looking at a scenario from many
different points of view can cool anger and enlighten consciousness.
Remember that trying to control another person only results in anger.
On the other hand, if you need nothing from another, the relationship
can fully flourish and be completely expressed.
Remember that you create your experience of another person though your
beliefs about her or him. The aspects that you put your attention on
will be made real in your life. However, if you look at others through
clean lenses, you give them a clean slate and dont bring the past
into the future. Keep your attention deeply in the present moment and
the past will not affect your future.
Whatever you put your attention on you make more real in your life.
Dwell on happy things and extraordinary events and that will be your
reality. Discipline your attention so that in each moment of your life
you can dwell and focus on what you truly desire. So, if you want a
truly loving relationship, focus on the other person with feelings of
love and joy, not impatience or lack.
The Law of Attraction - The world you experience is a reflection
of your own feelings and beliefs about it. Your beliefs and feelings
about relationships will attract experiences that reflect those beliefs
and feelings. So, deliberately create and focus on the beliefs that
will bring you the most joy in relationships and that will be your experience.
The Law of Allowing - Allowing another to be what they want to
be liberates you. On the other hand, constantly keeping ones controlling
attention on another person will actually tie up your attention and
render you its slave. Place your attention on the things you personally
want and allow others to put their attention on the things they want.
It truly breeds honesty. Grant others the freedom which you would like
to be given.
The Law of Deliberate Creation- Whatever you put your focus on
with great feeling and emotion will be made manifest in your life. So
create the relationships you truly want to experience by putting your
attention on the beliefs and feelings that will get you there. A belief
that all the men I meet turn out to be cheats will not attract
a faithful person into ones life. The experiences in your past
relationships do not have to reflect your beliefs about your future
relationships. Create ideal beliefs about relationships, beliefs about
the qualities that will bring you the most joy. Then focus on those
beliefs with great feeling and emotion and those beliefs will be made
manifest in your life as experience.
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