buddy system for dating. Tell your friend where
you're going and with whom, and be sure to provide
full names and phone numbers.
too available or desperate. Don't cancel your
plans with friends or activities you love for a
date. If a man is interested, he will fit himself
into your schedule.
If you are
meeting your date somewhere, never arrive early.
It's okay to be fashionably late but no more than
10 minutes. If your date is more than 15 minutes
late and hasn't called you, leave promptly.
appreciation when your date pays for you or gives
you gifts. A heartfelt "thank you" goes a long
way. It's also nice to add a flirtatious kiss if
you like him.
sex on the first date if you think the person has
serious potential. It is more inviting to let the
sexual tension build, and that gives you more time
to get to know who you're dealing with. Also, many
of my male clients have told me that they lose
respect for women who sleep with them on the first
Have an air
of mystery. Reveal things about yourself slowly.
Remember, you're not on Dr. Phil.
clothes that make you feel beautiful and sexy, and
don't say anything negative about your appearance.
Go shopping if you're not happy with your
wardrobe, and take a friend with you.
about how fabulous any of your ex-lovers were in
bed. If you want your man to improve his
lovemaking skills, learn how to talk to him about
If a man
doesn't make himself available to see you on
weekends regularly, he's not totally available.
Keep dating other men.
attention to a man's actions, not his words.
If a man
doesn't keep his word, move on. Excuses are a sign
that he is not taking responsibility for his life.
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