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If you listen to women talk about men, you'll often
hear them use the word "ANNOYING" to describe certain
men and certain things that some men DO.
Now, as you can probably
guess, it's not usually a good thing when a woman uses
this particular word to describe a guy... And, as you
can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this
particular word, it's not usually about guys who she
is ATTRACTED to (although this isn't always true).
Now, it's taken me a few
years of paying attention to really get a handle on
what women are talking about when they say, "He's
annoying" or "It's so annoying when he does that".
And guess what I realized was at the ROOT of women
finding a guy or his behavior annoying?
IT'S ALMOST ALWAYS WUSSY
BEHAVIOR! AHHHH! THINGS THAT ANNOY WOMEN...
Here are some of the things
that many women consider to be "annoying":
- Calling her too often
- Telling her that you have "feelings" for her
- Giving away your power to her and making her the
- Always asking a woman what she wants instead of
- Acting submissive and weak
- Accepting her demands, bossy-ness, and manipulative
- Being her doormat and putting your own needs aside
"WHAT?" you say.
"HOW COULD THIS BE?"... you might be thinking.
How is it possible that
demonstrating your affection for a woman by calling
her, telling her how you feel, letting her make the
decisions, and putting her first could be considered
ANNOYING, of all things?
Well guess what? IT IS. Women, and ESPECIALLY the
most ATTRACTIVE and desirable women, usually consider
the above things to be VERY annoying. Of course,
the reason for this is because no matter how good
these kinds of behaviors seem on the surface, there's
only one conclusion that can be drawn from them:
THE MAN DOING THEM IS A
BONAFIDE, 100% CERTIFIABLE WUSSY!
AND WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO
Now, do I really, really,
REALLY mean that women are NEVER, EVER attracted to
Wussies? I mean, isn't that an
over-generalization? Nothing is always true, right?
Well, this one IS. Actually, what I MEAN is... As far
as generalizations go, this particular one is as close
to being true all the time as they get.
And just in case I haven't
said this enough, let me say it one more time... just
to make sure it's clear:
WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO
So now you understand why all
of the "nice" things that you've done for women seem
to always result in the woman pulling away.
It's because she finds your
nice-guy "Wuss" behaviors to be ANNOYING. AND IT
KEEPS GETTING WORSE... To further confuse things,
you'll often hear a woman say something to the effect
of... "I want a STRONG guy who is also SENSITIVE..."
...or... "He needs to have
his own life, his own interests, and his own friends,
but also be totally focused on me..." I see things
like this in women's personal ads all the time. I'm
sure you've seen things like this yourself.
Women often talk about
wanting a combination of things in a man that just
don't seem to fit... So what's going on here? Are
women crazy? (Yes.) But seriously, what are they
talking about? How is it that women seem to always
talk about wanting men who have these qualities that
don't fit together?
I know that I personally used
to hear this stuff and then say to myself "OK, well
I've got the sensitive part covered so I guess I need
to start acting a little bit stronger." I
thought that maybe this came down to getting my lazy
ass to the gym and working out. You know, to become
"stronger". No, I'm serious. Well, here's the
BIG REALIZATION that I had... I've now realized
that I had it all wrong. Instead of thinking to
myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to
become a little stronger, what I really needed was to
become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on
The difference seems almost
like word-play, but it's not. Not at all. You
see, when a woman says that she wants a "strong guy
who's also sensitive", that's what she MEANS.
She wants a guy who's STRONG.
The sensitive part is far more "optional" than the
This is why women often date
jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and
don't date us "nice guys" who would do anything for
Remember, ATTRACTION ISN'T A
CHOICE. Women do not sit down and make a list of
the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it
over it for a few days, then DECIDE whether or not to
It happens in an INSTANT, and
it happens for all kinds of "illogical" reasons...
reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can't
So what's the answer here?
Before I tell you... if you are reading these words
I'm saying, and you're thinking to yourself
"Yes! This is my problem!" then I want you to go
DIRECTLY to this link before you read any further:
The answer here is to realize
that many of the things you do when you're around
women that you feel attracted to, are considered
ANNOYING by those women.
You must understand that you
sometimes have to do things that SEEM to be
"inconsiderate" in order to give a woman what she
REALLY wants (which is a man who is in control of
himself, the situation, and often her).
Raise your right hand, and
repeat after me...
"I will stop being a Wussy around women."
"I will stop being a Wussy around women."
"I will stop being a Wussy around women."
Stop doing things that say
"I'm a Wussy", because those are the very things that
women find ANNOYING.
And START doing the things
that you're learning here. Lean back. Act Cocky
& Funny around women. Bust on them and give them a
hard time. And LEAD the way, don't follow.
Now, one of the problems that
a lot of guys run into is "putting together" different
personality traits that don't seem to go together.
Women say that they want guys
who are funny... but also strong.
Many of the things women SAY
they want seem like they CONFLICT with each other.
What's a guy to do?
Well, THE FIRST thing a guy
should do is learn what WORKS. Not what SOUNDS like it
might work. Not what SHOULD work. And not what
is SUPPOSED to work.
LEARN WHAT WORKS.
I personally spent several
years trying to figure out what "works". Why did it
take me so long?
Because, as it turns out, I
started out with a HUGE disadvantage. And I'm
not talking about a disadvantage like a big nose
(which I have). I'm talking about a disadvantage
like BAD PROGRAMMING.
I had a "map" in my mind...
of how I thought I should behave around women... and
it turned out to be THE WRONG MAP.
The most frustrating part was
that when I did the things that SHOULD work, they made
women UN- interested.
It was as if the world wasn't
working right. I would be sweet and nice, and a
woman would not want to talk to me. I would call
often and share my feelings with her, and she would
fall for the rude jerk who could care less about
treating her well.
Well, as you might already
know, sometimes I'm a "glutton for punishment".
Translation: I stuck with it
anyway. I kept trying to figure out what works... even
though the things I was doing WEREN'T working.
The magic "breakthrough" came
ONLY after I started making friends with and watching
guys who were VERY successful with women... then
putting what I knew about psychology and behavior
together with the NEW stuff I was learning "in the
What I discovered was
literally SHOCKING to me. I can remember
slapping myself on the forehead, shaking my noggin,
and laughing to myself... as I watched some of my new
friends who were good with women... doing things that
just plain SHOULDN'T work... but that DID work.
Here's one of the lessons I
learned: Body Language is more important than
WORD language. In fact, you can have the
smoothest "pick up lines" in the world... but if you
don't understand Body Language, the woman you're
talking to CAN'T feel ATTRACTION for you.
Here's another one:
Doing "nice" things for a
woman doesn't make her any more likely to feel
ATTRACTION for you. In fact, most of these things
BACKFIRE... and wind up pushing her AWAY.
Here's a third lesson I
Even though "jerks" and "bad
boys" don't treat women well, doesn't mean that women
don't feel ATTRACTION for them.
In fact, women often report
feeling INCREDIBLY attracted to these kinds of men...
so powerfully, in fact, that they can't CONTROL these
As I was learning these
interesting and "counter intuitive" lessons, I also
began documenting the specific things that the guys
who were "naturals" with women did... in order to
One of my BIGGEST
realizations was that literally ANY guy can attract
women... if he just understands how ATTRACTION works.
And any guy can use the
secrets that "jerks" and "bad boys" have discovered
and used... WITHOUT being abusive or mean.
In fact, if you LEAVE OUT the
meanness or abuse, a woman will be FAR more likely to
Recently, I've released two
educational programs that teach two very important
aspects of how to attract women.
The first one is called "Body
Language For Success With Women And Dating".
In this program, I will show you how to transform
yourself from a "nice, sweet, annoying WUSSY" into a
guy who women feel ATTRACTION for... by transforming
your BODY LANGUAGE alone.
Like I said, if you don't
know how to use BODY LANGUAGE to communicate with and
attract women, then the WORDS you say DON'T MATTER.
I want you to go right now and watch some video clips
from this program HERE:
The SECOND important program
I've released recently is called "Cocky Comedy". In
this program I, and my special guests, spend several
hours teaching you how to master the technique that I
like to call "Cocky & Funny". This is one of the
interesting SECRET techniques that the guys who are
NATURALLY good with women use. It's a special
mix of humor and arrogance... that really switches on
the "chemistry" with a woman.
There is no other program in
the world like this one... and I'd like you to go and
watch some of the preview video clips so you get the
Oh, and if you haven't taken
the time to download my latest eBook "Attraction Isn't
A Choice", then you really need to go and do that
You can go and download it
right now, and be reading it within a few minutes.
Download it here:
I'll talk to you again soon.